The Ethical Slut

Just the other day a priority box came, and Tom made one of his snide little comments like "what's in there?" I looked at the address and said "I have no idea." He took the box and looked at it, shook it, and pulled out a wad of red rope with an evil shit eatin grin.

It may have taken us a few weeks to get the time to play with his new found toy, but play we did, and enjoyed thoroughly. These were taken last night. Tom says he needs more practice in wrapping. So if you have any tips please share, at least all you other kinky people. I know not everyone is into the same things we are! If you read my HNT post, then you know that I am very much into breast play, so this is right up my alley.
Good thing the alley is dark! Woot woot! Never can anything be simple, so after our rope fun and games, we got down to the business of fucking. That is always MY favorite game!
For whatever reason, things were a bit messy last night. A fact Tom enjoyed taking a photo of!
As an extra special bonus, I was allowed to use my wand last night after sex. I don't know about you, but there are 2 types of cumming for me. Vag and clit. A vag cum is always welcomed, and generally instigated by Tom's (or someone elses) cock fucking me good and hard. A clit cum is harder to cum by (no pun intended), and takes a signficant amount of work to make it happen.
Some women are only able to clit cum, and then only cum once. I used to be that way, and it's only been through the exploration of my sexual self that I have been able to let go and have it both ways. Wow - now that's a double entendre isn't it? I can vag cum over and over and over again. Clit cum I can usually handle 1 or 2 before I need a few minutes to recover and then can go at it again. It's really difficult to make me clit cum without some sort of battery operated device. I have no idea how we got on the cum discussion, but oh well.

Speaking of cumming - we're planning an adult weekend next weekend (Sept 5 and 6). The Usual Suspect is cumming over for some me, I mean three, time. And then on Sat we are going to see Blondie and Her Stud for some four time! I can't wait!

One of my blog readers has taken me up on my offer. I received an email from "Blondie" showing off her new toy purchased from one of my affiliates - Glass Fantasy. I love to see good toys in action! Isn't that pretty!?! Whew (fans self)! To get your own glass toy click here.This one is called Danni's G-Spot Lover. When you get yours, send me your pic and I'll post it.

It's been a busy week - just getting home from vacation - kids starting school - my shopping frenzy..... I'm enjoying my last week of freedom before reality comes to visit and I have to go back to work. My new job starts on Tues after the holiday. As a direct result, I haven't had much time for blogging - neither here or on my mommy blog. So I pulled my ass out of bed this, on what is going to be another busy day for me, and decided I better do some HNT work!

Tom and I had a great "welcome homecumming". Unfortunately the camera was downstairs so we didn't get any pictures. Which is a real bummer because Tom was actually trying to fist me. He wasn't able, too tight (yea go me for kegels!), but he had fun trying. We did capture the last part of it, but it is not really appropriate for HNT. Not that I'm usually appropriate anyways...

Right before I left Tom and I got a little wild on the "leaving tomorrow for 5 days sex" and we had some fun with the breast play and I had bruises for 4 days. It totally turns me on to have my breasts played with, and not just played with, but PLAYED with! Forget the whole nipple thing, that's fine, but I really enjoy the full breast experience.
I have been on a toy buying frenzy. Not the kind you are thinking of - rather an electronic toy buying frenzy! Pervert! LOL. I have a new phone, a new PDA, and my new camera just came yesterday. I love the phone, it's a Rumor, and it's great for texting and I finally have a phone that can take pictures again. The PDA is a HP IPAQ 211. I have no clue how to use it yet, but it looks really cool. Has built in WiFi. And my camera is a Panasonic Lumix 8mega pixel. I'm very much looking forward to breaking it in and sharing it with you.

Camping tomorrow for the holiday weekend with the kids. I hope everyone has a great HNT and I'll see ya next week!

Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on how you look at it, this is as close to a sexual encounter as I'm going to get in the next several days. I was "snuggled" with my want status post a fabulous experience, and Tom thought it was damn funny and took my picture.
My 2 kids and I are in Michigan visiting my brother and grandmother (I think I mentioned that before) and have been having an absolute blast. We spent most of the day today outside in the pond, my brother lives in what I call a palace on 10 acres, which includes a pole barn and big pond. It has one of those jumping things with a slide in it, and the kids were having a field day. He also has a kids size 4wheeler, and a big people 4wheeler, that were well ridden all day today.

As if that wasn't enough - the food here is great too. My brothers wife cooked us a big breakfast of sausage/bacon/eggs, last night it was brats and dogs on the grill, and tonight it was homemade pizza. And I mean home made, with home made dough and everything. Incredible. So now I'm sunburned AND fat. Super.

We still have 2 more full days, and I hope things continue to go as well as they have so far. I'll be glad to get home though, that's where my man is. I miss him something fierce!

Some people may think that sexual gymnastics are an Olympic sport. We'd like to think so too! So the other day when we were practicing, Tom shot this picture of us during the warm up.
The mat activity continued for some time, but unfortunately due to the vibration generated by the bed, we have no more footage for you! LOL!

To see more sexy HNT people doing their Olympic best go see Osbasso at his site.

This picture was taking with the lovely chain mail skirt that Hot Lips let me try on, along with my new bondage bra and collar that Tom bought me. We were playing around prior to going out to the party on Sat night.
It was fun and I thought it would make a great HNT picture this week! Hope everyone else is having a good week so far. We're off to Dutch Wonderland and camping this weekend, so I'll probably be off the computer for a few days.

I don't understand why some people think I am some sort of super hero. I'm normal. I get tired. I take naps with my dog. I mean really, just because I like sex and live a swinger lifestyle doesn't mean I don't eat, sleep, and act like a normal human being!This is how I prepared myself for Saturday night's festivities. Napping with my puppy. Speaking of puppies, I'm trying to talk Tom into letting me get another one. Like we need another dog in the house. But I think pairs is good, two annoying dogs of his, two precious dogs of mine!

Wow - we have had one helluva weekend. I think we've met more people this weekend than we have all summer.

Friday night we met up with a very fun couple. As usual Tom had done all the leg work and emailing and setting things up, so as we are pulling into the restaurant parking lot I asked him "What are their names again?" We will call them Blondie and her Stud. They were both very good looking, very fun and energetic, and very easy to talk too. According to Tom we had been trying to get together with them for quite some time. They are on APG - another one of the swinger/lifestyle sites we belong too. At any rate, we met up with them for dinner and had a great time. It took us over an hour just to put our order in because we were chatting so much, and then we ate and talked some more, and then we shut the place down, then proceeded to talk so more outside of the restaurant. Woot woot! Needless to say we got along well. Due to circumstances beyond any of our control, we weren't able to explore our relationship further, say in a bedroom, but that is in the works for another meeting!

Saturday we hung out in the morning at home, I cleaned the house up and Tom did Tom stuff. We had a "date" with Hot Lips and Medicine Man in the evening, we were heading to a house party in West Virginia together. Again with Tom heading the pack he secured us an invitation to this party. I had no clue who any of these people were, only that HL and MM were going to be there. There were a lot of couples there. A LOT. I guess not as many as a Pocono's Party, but quite a few nonetheless. Maybe between 15-20 couples? I'm guessing. It was of course my job to learn and remember every one's name. Which is actually a great way to introduce yourself around the room, meet new people, and determine if you'd like to get to know them, ahem, ahem..further. I will admit that our hosts were very hot and very fun, and did a fantastic job over all with the party. They had a beautiful large home with plenty of space to move and play and watch and so on. You get the picture. Actually you don't get the picture because we didn't take any pictures. But anyways, the theme was sexy dresses for the girls and there were various stages of dress and undress when it came to the dresses. I wore one that I was comfortable in yet a little sexy. I'm always a bit intimidated when going to someones house, especially when I don't know anyone there. Hot Lips and MM don't count! Most everyone made us feel comfortable and welcomed, and there were some very sexy folks there.

There were snacks and drinks, music, a stripper pole, and lots of fun people. Hot lips was in her element! She and medicine man got to play with a woman she had been panting after for awhile, so that was a super bonus! I ended up falling asleep on the couch after 1am sometime, while Tom continued to visit. We didn't play with anyone there, other than some light kissing. No particular reason, we just didn't seem to click with anyone special. Medicine Man drove us back to the hotel and we all crashed out. This morning I woke up to a hard cock (Tom's) insistently poking my leg. Hot Lips woke up with a raging hangover. But she got laid too (by Medicine Man). All in all it was a very fun time, and we are hoping we get invited again.

So if that wasn't enough, we had made tentative plans to have brunch with a local couple that again, Tom had been trying to hook us up with for some time without success. These are folks who know friends of friends of ours and down the line and so on. They are on SLS as well as APG. Sites that we belong to as well. So we called and made arrangements to meet them at a local diner. Let's call them Pretty Girl and Vroom. She was just the girl next door with brown hair and pretty eyes, just about the epitome of MILF. And I would have loved too, except we were in a restaurant. He was cool and good looking too. I have no idea why I am calling him Vroom, but it just seems to fit. So we chatted and visited for several hours over brunch and coffee and ended the visit with intentions of trying to get together in a more intimate setting.

This has been a whirlwind weekend with lots of driving and travelling and visiting and just all and all fun. To end out our great day, I told Tom I really needed some HOT wings and beer to keep me afloat for the rest of the day. So we headed out to Buffalo Wild Wings tonight for dinner.
Tom got wimpy mild wings and I got hot. They have 12 different sauces you can get, AND they did all flippers for me (they called them flats). That's just perfection at its best if you ask me! You know it's good when your tongue and your lips are burning and the ranch nor the beer are cooling them off! Fabulous!

Someone last week purchased a new glass toy. I know this because he or she clicked on my glass fantasy link and I got an email saying there had been a purchase. Congratulations!

So here is what I have to say - if you buy something through one of my links, send me a picture of you using it and I will post it on the blog. I would love to see what you've gotten and see it in use. No faces please!

Sound like fun? Show me your toys! I love the glass toys, I posted about my newest one here.

(This is my newest glass toy - show me yours)

My boy turned 6 today. So if it wasn't bad enough that I had to deal with my newly 5 year old girl, now I've got my newly 6 year old boy. I'm feeling older by the minute.....

It has been over a month since I've managed to eek out a HNT. Mostly because life has had me so busy that I just simply forget what day it is! So as I sit here on the couch watching So You Think You Can Dance I'm remembering that it's Wed night and tomorrow is HNT!

I don't lay out in the sun. I wear 50spf sunscreen. And even through all that I still manage to get a little bit of a tan (inadvertently). I'm sharing a bit of my sun with you today.
So go visit Os the king of HNT and see some more half nekkid people!